You wonder why you are even there

Dating advice to a widower

Such a man may tell you that he is working through his grieving process and that he is trying to learn to love someone again. He has probably been taken care of, coddled, and somewhat controlled.

He has probably been

They might be used to a wife who did all the domestic things for them, such as the laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, or even fixing a running toilet. Rather keep an open mind and take into consideration all the differing perspectives before you arrive at any important decision. If a lot of money is involved, consider opting for a pre-nuptial agreement with your new spouse. Many have had comfortable, long-term relationships and have gotten secure in their daily existence.

Such a man may tell you

Then there are those who wait, and wait, and wait some more, unable to commit. Some widowers get married very quickly after their loss.

For all this time you have done your duty by your family and now it is your turn to have a fulfilling personal life. If this advice sounds negative, it is only meant to provide women with a jolt of realism, and to provide widowers with an eye-opener. He may keep you hidden from them at first, not knowing how they will react to their father with another woman. The gains may outweigh the losses. Many may not want to live alone.